Marriage Rediscovery Mediation

Save Your Marriage from the Divorce Disease

If your marriage has complaints, problems and conflict ... chances are your marriage has the divorce disease. Read my story. My name is Chuck Ledermann, 57 years old. I grew up in Lake County Florida. I married my school sweetheart at 19, divorced at 23. I remarried again at 25 in Las Vegas, divorced at 32 broke in Wyoming. Remarried again at 43 in Phoenix. I've been happily married for the last 14 years. And, proud of it. It took me twenty years to figure out the Divorce Disease. Hopefully, you don't have to go through my pain.

The Divorce Disease will ruin Your Marriage. Renew Your Marriage Vows...Save Your Marriage.

So how do you restore broken promises and  marriage vows? And how do you do it without spending months in marriage counseling? I've asked these questions many times.

Between me and my spouse there were affairs, cheating, hidden addictions, lying and financial secrecy. But, if I take a close look it goes beyond the usual trust and being honest. My marriage vows were weakened when my spouse and I were frequently late, unreliable, and insensitive. It doesn't take much to shake trust. We live in a hectic world of fast, faster, and fastest. The Divorce Disease thrives on marriages where never enough time to communicate. We lose patience...we lose trust in an instant. But, when it happens in our marriage, we ask Why? How? What happened? The Divorce Disease is a silent marriage killer. There must be a way to rebuild marriage it in an instant too. Think about it. You are married for many years then something happens...and the marriage is over just like that. Thinking you can rebuild a marriage in an instant is crazy. I thought about it a long time...the best solution is too avoid the Divorce Disease.

When you love someone, it means you can trust, respect and be patient with them.

And, not be disappointed when something unusual happens. Generally, I have relationships with people I can trust. I think we all do this. When my friend goofs I don't think much of it. In marriage, when we slip up...it's holy gee whiz, our marriage vows are forever broken.

The Divorce Disease will say pack up and leave. Marriage relationships are like custom homes.

It is built one brick at a time. A custom home has many bricks. And every brick is significant because it strengthens each other and builds the entire foundation. The stronger the marriage foundation, the more support you have for error. If one room gets damaged, you don't destroy the whole house. The Divorce Disease will make you think the marriage is over. The solution is to work together to repair the damaged room. And, in the process you redecorate the rest of the house. You reinvent your marriage. With a strong marriage foundation bonded with traditional marriage vows, you can make a mistake without ruining everything. We all do stupid things once in a while. No one gets everything right all the time. I made mistakes. We all make mistakes. Call it human nature. In marriage we must learn tolerant. And, provide each other opportunity to grow, become stronger... and be happier.

Marriage vows are not like disposable household products.

Marriage Vows have a very long shelf life. Marriage vows defined who we are and how much we are willing to invest in our spouse. Yes, marriage is an investment. So if you're trying to restore trust in your marriage vows, and you are expected to be home at 6pm, but don't arrive until 6:19pm. For you, 6:19pm might be a matter of only 19 minutes and no big deal. But, to your spouse it might be more about your reliability and trust. The Divorce Disease will say its okay I'm late...it's only my spouse. It's not like an important job interview.

The Divorce Disease will say there is no hope. How can you rebuild a broken relationship?

You make and keep promises. Here's my help advice. Make and keep marriage vows. Schedule a marriage mediation meeting with a marriage spouse.. Explore ways to reinvent your marriage relationship. Rediscover the joys when you first said "I Love You". Keep growing together experiencing life one step at a time. There are no short-cuts in marriage relationships.  And in closing, I want to make it real clear... the little things count big.
Sincerely,
Chuck

The Divorce Disease Book

"This is the best self-help marriage book I have ever read. It is filled with valuable information and tips on save your marriage. The author really pours his heart into this book and tells a true story that'll make you realize divorce is not the answer. It did save my marriage! You can save your marriage too! " - Chuck

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"Terry Phillips knows the secrets of marriage relationships. With his wisdom, he has helped me rediscover things in my marriage relationship that I took for granted. He talks from experience and a loving father. He understands the pain of divorce. And, he is passionate about relationships and saving marriages. Sometimes I think he has a crystal ball...he is a miracle worker. He healed my divorce disease." - Mary

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